Why Christians Must Reject Welfare and Government Dependency
In our age of moral collapse and bureaucratic bloat, the godly man must ask a pressing question: Who is my provider? Is it God, or government? Is it the household, or the welfare office? Is it the family, or the bureaucrat?
The answer cuts to the heart of The Great Order. A people cannot serve two masters. A man cannot declare Christ as King and Caesar as provider. A household cannot be ruled by the Spirit of God and subsidized by the spirit of Mammon. The time has come to declare war on every form of statist dependence that has poisoned the modern Christian household.
I. The Biblical Order: Family First, Church Second, State Last
From Genesis to Revelation, Scripture paints a clear picture of responsibility and provision. God did not design the civil government to feed, clothe, educate, or shelter His people. He gave that task to fathers, mothers, extended families, and local churches. The household, not the bureaucracy, is the backbone of civilization.
“But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” – 1 Timothy 5:8
In God’s economy:
- The father is the head and provider of his house.
- The mother is the manager and nourisher of the home.
- The church is the safety net for widows, orphans, and the truly destitute.
- The state is the sword-bearer to punish evildoers, not the cradle of economic provision (Romans 13:4).
When a man abdicates his provision to the state, he is not just making a financial decision—he is committing spiritual treason. He trades the glory of fatherhood for a government handout. He forfeits his role as king and priest for the pity of politicians.
II. Government Welfare Is a False Gospel
At its core, welfare is not just a system, it is a rival religion. It preaches a gospel of dependency, promises salvation through taxation, and delivers counterfeit mercy through coercion.
Instead of calling men to repentance and labor, it pays them to remain idle. Instead of rewarding marriage and family order, it penalizes it. Instead of honoring multi-generational households, it fractures them. Instead of strengthening churches, it replaces them.
“The borrower is servant to the lender.” – Proverbs 22:7
Dependency on the state is slavery in slow motion. Every welfare check is a chain. Every food stamp a leash. Every subsidy an invitation to forget the God who gives bread in the wilderness.
The state offers welfare the same way Pharaoh offered leeks and garlic, at the price of freedom. It is a bribe to keep men quiet, families broken, and churches irrelevant.
III. Welfare Destroys the Household Economy
Welfare does not empower families, it destroys them. In the United States, federal welfare programs exploded in the 1960s with the promise to help the poor. But instead of lifting up the needy, they shattered the most vulnerable institution: the family.
- In 1965, Black illegitimacy was around 25%. Today, it is over 70%—driven by fatherless homes, subsidized by welfare.
- Welfare incentivizes single motherhood, discourages marriage, and punishes intact households through income-based penalties.
- Men are driven out of the home so that women can qualify for more benefits.
- Children grow up under the authority of social workers, not fathers.
- The church, once the pillar of community charity, has become silent and sidelined.
This is not compassion. It is conquest. It is the intentional dismantling of Biblical order through dependency economics.
When God’s design for provision is reversed, families suffer, masculinity withers, and matriarchal welfare bureaucracies fill the vacuum.
IV. Early America: Strength Without Subsidy
The myth of government provision is a modern delusion. For most of human history, people survived—not through the state, but through strong households, churches, and communities.
In colonial and early American history:
- Fathers worked land, ran shops, or practiced trades to feed their families.
- Mothers cultivated gardens, made bread, and taught their children at home.
- Children worked alongside parents, contributing from a young age.
- Churches provided for widows, hosted communal meals, and cared for the poor directly—without a dime from Washington.
- Communities helped each other in times of need without expecting bureaucratic intervention.
These families were poor by today’s standards, but they were rich in faith, discipline, and self-sufficiency. They raised warriors, not wards. They built churches, not case files. And when hard times came, they pulled together—not to vote for handouts, but to work, pray, and rebuild.
No Social Security. No food stamps. No unemployment insurance. And yet—they survived. Because they believed in God, not government.
V. Welfare Undermines the Fear of God
A man who fears God will work, give, and take responsibility. A man who trusts in the state will drift, consume, and make excuses.
Government dependency erodes moral character. It teaches men to expect something for nothing. It enables sloth. It undermines discipline. It feeds entitlement.
“If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat.” – 2 Thessalonians 3:10
This is not cruelty. It is mercy. God’s law commands compassion—but it never authorizes laziness. The man who chooses idleness over labor should feel hunger—not because society is heartless, but because the hunger will drive him to repent and work.
Government support short-circuits this repentance. It allows a man to remain in sin while avoiding consequences. It teaches him to blame systems instead of fearing God.
A household built on government subsidy is not neutral—it is spiritually compromised.
VI. What About the Truly Needy?
Some will object: What about the widow? The orphan? The disabled?
Scripture answers clearly: such people are to be cared for by families first, churches second.
“Honor widows who are truly widows… But if any believing woman has relatives who are widows, let her care for them. Let the church not be burdened…” – 1 Timothy 5:3,16
This is God’s triage:
- Let sons and daughters care for their parents.
- Let extended family support the weak.
- Let the church provide charity with accountability.
- Only in the most exceptional of circumstances should civil aid even be considered—and never through centralized, pagan, tax-funded systems.
We must rebuild these structures. Let the church revive the diaconate. Let households create storehouses of food and savings. Let brothers and sisters bind together in mutual aid.
The answer to poverty is not more government—it is more order.
VII. Why Modern Christians Compromise
So why do so many professing Christians continue to feed at the government trough?
- Fear: They fear hardship and don’t trust God to provide through family or labor.
- Laziness: They prefer ease over effort.
- Deception: They’ve been told welfare is a form of “justice.”
- Worldliness: They no longer think like the Kingdom of God but like the kingdoms of men.
But in every case, the underlying problem is a failure of faith. They trust the bureaucracy more than the Bible. They believe the promise of politicians more than the promises of God.
“Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the Lord.” – Jeremiah 17:5
The curse of statism is not just national—it is personal. It erodes a man’s soul, weakens his household, and places his children under the thumb of a rival authority.
VIII. Restoring Biblical Provision: The Path Forward
So what must be done?
1. Patriarchs Must Provide
Every Christian man must repent of passivity and take up the mantle of provision. He must labor with his hands, work with dignity, and build a household economy that does not need the state.
Even in hardship, he must refuse dependency. He must teach his sons to produce, not consume. He must store, save, plant, and build—so that his household is resilient and righteous.
2. Wives Must Rule the Kitchen, Not the Debit Card
Many modern women are complicit in statism through consumerism and waste. A godly wife must learn to stretch meals, preserve food, garden, and practice old-world frugality. She must reject the lie that government benefits are a form of “help” and embrace the glory of true provision under her husband’s leadership.
3. Churches Must Recover Charity and Discipline
The early church cared for its poor through structured accountability (Acts 6). The modern church must stop outsourcing compassion to Caesar and reclaim the ministry of mercy. That includes screening needs, requiring repentance, involving families, and calling men to responsibility.
4. Reject the Idolatry of Safety Nets
The Christian life is not safe. It is sacrificial. The patriarch must embrace risk, toil, and the potential for difficulty. He must teach his children that God provides through His order, not through the welfare state.
Let your household be known for its strength—not its benefits.
IX. Final Charge: Choose This Day Whom You Will Serve
It is time to draw a line in the sand.
You cannot build The Great Order with one hand in God’s Word and the other in the government treasury. You cannot preach Christ’s lordship while living off Caesar’s crumbs. You cannot restore patriarchy while letting the state nurse your children.
“Choose you this day whom ye will serve… but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” – Joshua 24:15
This is not just a spiritual declaration. It is a material separation. It means walking away from dependency. It means breaking ties with the state. It means building real provision through faith, labor, family, and the church.
Let the world call it foolish. Let your peers call it extreme.
But when the next collapse comes—when the digital IDs are issued, the food supply is choked, the money is controlled, and the freedom to dissent is revoked—it will be the man who trusted God and ruled his house who will stand firm.
His barns will be full. His children will be secure. His conscience will be clear. And his legacy will remain.
Because he did not bow to Pharaoh. He did not sell his household to the state. He did not wait for permission to obey God.
He stood.
Let that man be you.
Why? Just because you said so?
For you to be my shepherd do I need to dress like a Sheep is a dog outfit okay?
Between satisfying your 4 wives, keeping then “happy” (if that’s even a thing), running your businesses and spending time with you 15 children (or more) how do you even have time to write? Being LDS I do not completely agree with some of your conclusions, however myself and my Patriarch feel your devotion to truth and level of dedication to your publication deserves our support. And you obviously need coffee so we have decided to contribute monthly to your outreach, Shalom
The more I read, the more my heart aches for a real man such as yourself. What part of the country are you in? I would love to meet up with you.
Will you be my Daddy? promise I’ll stop living off the state, you can even spank me if I don’t!
I feel hopelessly lost, waiting for God to send a good man. But why would any good man want me, a divorced 40 year old living in the projects with 2 children. How can I possibly live in a Biblical manner to attract a good man? My Lord, I willingly submit to your guidance, please help me to live by God’s laws.
The satanic funds disobedience – on purpose!!
DRAIN THE SWAMP! RESTORE MALE AUTHORITY! MAGA!
I will take all the help I can get, State or not
Let me guess, we should all follow your little cult instead of the state?
The state steals half my money, i’ll take any of it back I can get.
Actually the state is “your shepherd”, it has always been this way.
Without help from DCS I would not be able to live on my own, do you thing people like me should just live on the street?
I suppose next you are going to tell me I have to have a man pay for all my shit, no thanks.
If the government would stop paying women to be whores, real men might get a chance to provide.
You’re not wrong, the system does reward rebellion. The government subsidizes single motherhood, promotes fatherlessness, and pays women to forsake the home while punishing men for trying to lead. It’s state-sponsored disorder.
“Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil…” (Isaiah 5:20)
But while the system is corrupt, godly men don’t wait for permission to provide, we build anyway. We build homes, order, business, and legacy, not by whining, but by warring in righteousness.
The answer isn’t just exposing welfare feminism, it’s replacing it with Biblical patriarchy, restored families, and multi-generational dominion.
Let the state fund failure. We will forge legacy.
after everything the white people took i want my money.
The cycle of blame will never build anything. No matter the past, no amount of government handouts will restore dignity, order, or generational strength. The state doesn’t give, it takes. It enslaves with dependency, erodes responsibility, and replaces fathers with bureaucrats.
True wealth doesn’t come through resentment or redistribution, it comes through obedience to God’s design: strong families, diligent work, wise stewardship, and multi-generational vision. You don’t need “reparations.” You need restoration, and that won’t come from the state. It comes from the Shepherd who never fails: Christ.
How am I supposed to pay my bills and take care 5 kids without EBT and housing help.
Your burden is real, and you’re not alone in feeling overwhelmed. But dependence on the state is not the long-term solution. The system that hands out EBT and housing assistance is the same system that dismantles families, replaces fathers, and traps generations in survival mode rather than kingdom growth.
God never intended for the state to be your shepherd, He intended for husbands, fathers, and the Church to bear that responsibility. When households are built in order, with men walking in strength and women walking in faithfulness, provision follows—not always easily, but righteously.
The answer isn’t shame, it’s repentance, realignment, and a return to God’s design: marriage, headship, family order, community, and work. It won’t be instant, but it is possible, and it’s worth everything. Let the rebuilding begin. You’re not a ward of the state. You’re called to be part of a household under God.
Food and utilities are literally a human right. I dont care who pays for it.
Food and utilities are necessities, but they are not entitlements. The moment we say, “I don’t care who pays for it,” we reveal the root problem: a godless worldview that divorces provision from responsibility and rights from righteousness.
Scripture teaches that “if any would not work, neither should he eat” (2 Thessalonians 3:10). Provision is the fruit of labor, stewardship, family, and order, not the product of coercing others through the state. When the government becomes your provider, it also becomes your master—and freedom dies.
Food and electricity aren’t free, they are paid for by someone. If we truly love justice, we won’t demand others bear our load; we’ll build, labor, and align our households with God’s design so we can provide not only for ourselves, but for others in true need.
Rights without responsibility breed ruin. But responsibility under God brings blessing.
If you aint going to be my sugar daddy then shut up!
That mindset right there is exactly why our culture is crumbling, mocking provision while demanding it, scorning godly men while expecting their labor to fund rebellion.
A sugar daddy offers indulgence in exchange for compromise. A patriarch offers protection, provision, and purpose under righteous headship, and he expects obedience, order, and honor in return. If that sounds offensive, it’s because the world has traded covenant for consumption.
We’re not here to buy affection or silence truth. We’re here to restore what’s been lost: men who lead, women who build, and households that don’t beg from Pharaoh’s table. If that offends, the issue isn’t with the message, it’s with the mirror.